Love Wars: Clash of the Parents by Matthew A. Tower

LOVE WARS

CLASH OF THE PARENTS

A True Divorce Story

by Matthew A. Tower

Illustrated by Tsuneo Sanda

Raja Media LLC

Middle Grade Nonfiction

370 pages

ages 9 to 18

Nate and Vanessa started the war, but only their son Matthew can end it! Young Matthew’s world shatters when his parents split up and put him in the middle of their custody battle. Desperate to escape their never-ending conflicts, Matthew imitates his hero, Luke Skywalker, and launches an against-all-odds mission to stop Mom and Dad’s war of vengeance! Will Matthew’s little brother Thomas Rabbit help blow up the Divorce War Death Star, or will he hide and play with his bunnies?

Love Wars: Clash of the Parents is a true story of youthful bravery, and a wacky account of one family’s wretched yet hilarious nuclear meltdown . . . with an unexpected and unforgettable ending. Matthew A. Tower’s inspirational memoir is a page-turner for readers of all ages, whether or not they have been affected by divorce and family strife.

Love Wars is fully illustrated by award-winning artist Tsuneo Sanda, adding an immersive quality to the experience.

GOODREADS    /    AMAZON

MY TIDBITS

Divorce can feel like war, but Matthew is doing his best to not only survive but, maybe, subdue the battle, too.

This read hits the storm of divorce from Matthew's point of view. As the oldest of two sons...and not even through middle school...he's caught up in the battles, often not sure what's going on. To say that his parents' emotions and tensions run high is an understatement. Matthew turns to Star Wars to spin some of it in a way he can handle, but the battles are real.

The book is based on the real life experiences of the author and don't hold back as he rolls through the entire process of his parents' divorce. He keeps the pacing steady most of the way through with only a few slower sections as he steers through the emotional rollercoaster and explosions of emotions. It brings the character across with natural flow and connects with real life moments. There's chaos in misunderstanding and explosions, which nod to humor but never step into that direction really since this is a more serious theme...and Matthew did have to deal with all of it. It creates an emotionally hectic ride the entire way through, which feels like hitting a tsunami, at times.  It's a rough divorce.

Everything flows well, and the writing fits the middle grade audience. Matthew is a character to connect with and root for. The Star Wars nods add imagination and spice, and helped Matthew quite a bit. I'm not sure as many middle graders will recognize all of the references to that universe, anymore, although older readers will feel at home on that end. For readers who are experiencing a divorce or have gone through one (in other words a large percentage) and enjoy reading about others' experiences, they can find support, encouragement, and, if nothing else, feel as if they aren't alone. 

And here he is...

Matthew A. Tower is a legendary gaming guide publisher (selling over 5 million copies, as founder and CEO of Versus Books). Now he's bringing his love of "Star Wars" to his middle grade nonfiction debut: a funny, poignant true story in which his younger self copes with his parents’ chaotic divorce by imagining it as a “Star Wars” style epic that’s uniquely and specifically written to hook middle grade and young readers. It’s a wacky-yet-relatable account of one family’s wretched but hilarious nuclear meltdown…with an unexpected, unforgettable ending.